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Breaking insecurities through writing

imagesI have been writing in this blog for quite some time now and have shared in social media a very small portion of the articles that I have written. I did not know the exact reason behind this strange hesitation that I had, so I decided to write about the actual reasons that I was not consciously aware of. After writing all the reasons that I thought were preventing me from sharing them, I figured out that none of them was something that should be considered as something reasonable. After seeing that there was not anything that could be taken seriously, I started sharing new articles from this blog and thus saw a considerable increase of readers of them. I have also used this similar technique to face some difficult situations that I have been in and have found it quite powerful and would like to share it with you and mention some of the reasons that I think make it efficient. Continue reading

Start making a decision by writing on paper

Source: theodysseyonline.com

Source: theodysseyonline.com

A few years ago a friend of mine told me that when he is trying to make an important decision, rather than just thinking about it, he used a clipped piece of paper for it. He wrote down there what where his current thoughts, possible approaches and alternatives towards the end. According to him, this is a very beneficial way of making decisions, as it tends to be a rational one and which is also based on realistic circumstances and surprising obstacles, which are often forgotten when only thinking about them. Continue reading

You haven’t decided until you take action

Decide-600x361There are times in our lives when we will motivated and inspired to decide about something, but usually we do not follow through that decision. This is a clear sign of a self-sabotage type of behavior that we should not have it. If you do not possess this type of behavior, such that you are very committed to pursue and act according to your decision then you might not need to continue reading this article. I want to remind myself and to tell you about this insight that can have a considerable impact in your life: Whenever you decide about something, do not leave the scene of decision without taking an action about it. Continue reading

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